Islamic etiquette

A comprehensive guide to Islamic etiquette and noble character in daily life according to the Sunnah of the Prophet. Discover discussions on etiquette towards Allah, the ethics of seeking knowledge, birrul walidain (being dutiful to parents), and social etiquette. A reliable reference for building a civilized and ethical Muslim personality.

The Ruling on Parody in Islam: Harmless Entertainment or Severe Insult? Imam Al-Ghazali Explains

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Illustration comparing parody for entertainment with the harmful consequences of mocking others in Islam.

In today’s social media-driven era, parody and impersonation content are absolutely rampant. From mimicking the distinct speech patterns of politicians and parodying a friend’s unique walking style, to creating comedy sketches that blatantly highlight someone’s physical flaws—all are executed in the relentless pursuit of likes, laughter, and entertainment. Admittedly, it is often hilarious, and we … Read more

What is Ghibah? Definition, Punishment, and How to Repent (Al-Ghazali’s Guide)

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An illustration metaphorically depicting the danger of *ghibah* (backbiting), showing the silhouettes of two people whispering in a dark room, with a mirror reflection revealing them eating raw flesh.

Have you ever heard someone initiate a conversation with the phrase, “I don’t mean to speak ill of them, but this is just a fact…”? Be extremely cautious; such “savior” sentences frequently serve as the gateway to one of the most severely underestimated major sins humanity commits: Ghibah (backbiting). In Islam, safeguarding the tongue is … Read more

How to Deal with Backbiting: An Assertive Guide by Imam Al-Ghazali

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Person looking uncomfortable, signaling refusal while friends laugh and gossip.

Have you ever found yourself trapped in an incredibly awkward situation like this? You are sitting casually with friends or colleagues. Initially, the conversation flows pleasantly, discussing hobbies or work. Suddenly, the direction of the conversation shifts. One person begins mentioning someone’s name, and slowly, they start “peeling away” their flaws and exposing their private … Read more

The Etiquette of the Sick and the Obligation of Repentance Before Death According to Asna al-Matalib

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Hands of a patient holding prayer beads (tasbih), praying for forgiveness.

Illness frequently arrives without an invitation. For many individuals, sickness is merely a physical disruption that severely hinders daily activities. However, within the profound theological framework of Islam, illness is a “love letter” from Allah, simultaneously serving as a critical early warning for us to prepare for our ultimate destination. When the physical body begins … Read more

The Signs of Death and How to Perform Talqin for the Dying According to Shafi’i Fiqh

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A close-up photo of a child gently holding the hand of a parent who is in the final moments of life on a bed, accompanied by prayer beads and the Qur’an, depicting a calm atmosphere of spiritual companionship.

Witnessing a beloved family member lying weak on the threshold of death is an excruciatingly heavy moment. The heart feels suffocated, the mind becomes disoriented, and panic frequently ensues. We anxiously wonder, “Is this the final moment?” and “What exactly must I do to assist them?” In Islamic terminology, this highly critical transitional phase is … Read more

A Complete Guide to Tawassul in Islam: Definition, Authentic Proofs, and Refuting Shirk

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Illustration comparing tawassul and shirk in Islam, showing supplication directed to Allah through a valid means versus worship directed to idols.

Confused about the ruling on tawassul? Read this comprehensive guide sourced from authoritative Ahl al-Sunnah wal Jama’ah (Aswaja) texts. Equipped with authentic hadith transliterations, rational theological logic, and robust refutations against accusations of polytheism (shirk), this discussion provides thorough and heart-soothing clarity. In the midst of today’s noisy differences of opinion among the Ummah, the … Read more

Requesting Dua During Umrah: Rulings, Evidence, and Proper Etiquette

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A male worshipper prays with deep devotion before the Kaaba in Masjidil Haram, Mecca, at dusk.

We often witness touching scenes when friends, neighbors, or family members bid farewell before departing for the Holy Land. Beyond wishing them a safe journey, one phrase is almost universally spoken: “Please do not forget to pray for me there!” The habit of requesting dua during Umrah is deeply rooted in our society. However, does … Read more

The Complete Guide to the Fiqh of Tahni’ah in Islam: Rulings, Evidences, and Etiquette

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Kitab Asna Al-Matalib terbuka di atas meja kayu, sebuah tasbih, dan smartphone menampilkan ucapan selamat hari raya.

Whenever the Islamic New Year arrives or Eid approaches, family WhatsApp groups and social media platforms are immediately filled with festive messages. While many enthusiastically send their greetings, others hesitate or fear falling into religious innovation (bidʿah). The classic question arises: “Is there a prophetic guidance for this practice?” This hesitation is a natural manifestation … Read more

The Complete Dua for Dressing: A Sunnah Guide from Putting On to Taking Off Clothes

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Baju koko putih bersih terlipat rapi di samping kitab doa Al-Qur'an terbuka dan tasbih kayu di atas meja kayu dengan cahaya matahari pagi.

How many times do we change our garments in a single day? From sleepwear and professional uniforms to casual home attire, this activity often passes by as a mere mundane routine. However, within the Islamic tradition, this simple, repetitive moment can transform into a profound source of spiritual reward if we understand its underlying principles. … Read more

Dua for Wearing Clothes: The Sunnah of Regular vs. New Garments

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Foto perbandingan tumpukan pakaian sehari-hari yang sudah terpakai di sebelah kiri dan kemeja putih baru dengan label dan tasbih di sebelah kanan, ilustrasi artikel doa berpakaian.

Every single day, we perform the routine of opening our wardrobes, selecting a garment, and putting it on. While this activity may feel automatic and mundane, Islam transforms the simple act of dressing into a profound source of spiritual reward when performed with mindfulness and adherence to the prophetic tradition. Imam al-Nawawi, a prominent authority … Read more